The fact is, abuse is something that makes you feel extremely uncomfortable and is directed at you or someone else. One of the fundamental goals of Fetishmen is to provide a safe and comfortable place for men new and old, both in age and experience, to explore their fetish(s). While people say things that come without intent to hurt someone, it is the attacks on people, race, gender, sexual orientation, or religious beliefs that we need and will address.

To summarize, the following items are considered abuse:

- Attacks on race, gender, sexual orientation

- Attacks on Religious Beliefs

- Threats of violence or harm

- Threats of blackmail

- Concerns for safety

Of course, this is just a general list. If you feel something is abusive, please email abuse@fetishmen.net - we take all abuse complaints seriously.