When you are in chat, you have 2 options for private messaging; Whispers and Private Chats. In this article, we are going to focus on private chats. 

To start a private chat with another member, you must be a Premium Member on Fetishmen. If you are not a free member, please purchase a membership by going to https://www.fetishmen.net/payment/settings and purchase one of our memberships. Once you have a Premium Membership, follow the steps below:

1. Enter chat and select the room you want to be in.

2. Once you are in chat, left click on the user you want to private chat with.

3. Click on "Invite to Private Chat"

4. The other user will get a request to join you in a private chat. 

5. If they accept the chat, a new window will open up as a private room for just the 2 of you.