50 year old recently divorced after almost 10 years, papa bear living in the Twin Cities of Minneapolis/St. Paul, Minnesota. Ya sure, you betcha! I'm a beefy guy, with a big chest, a tummy, and the heart of a teddy bear.
I've come out of the closet three times now - once as a gay man, once as a leather man, and once as a rubber man. I think I'm pretty much out and proud.
I'm here to surf the vast number of pics, catch up with some old friends, meet some new ones, possibly hook up, and watch kinky vids - I'm a supporter, are you?
I'm just over 6 feet tall, weigh in at 255, am definitely a bear, a grizzly bear (I've been told the gray fur makes me look more grizzly than brown bear), sport a full bear, a cropped/shaved head, green eyes, a ready smile, 8 long, 4 around, cut.
I really want to find my elusive "unicorn" someday. What does that look like to me?
A furry, responsible, rubber bear or cub who wants to build a future together as my partner, not a dependent. A man who knows who he is and won't suddenly after nearly 10 years announce in a flourish that he's poly and wants a full time pup pack - having shown no interest in either. A man who understands needs vs wants, a man who isn't afraid of hard work, fun play, and deep intimacy. Someone who understands that compromise is part of a successful relationship, but isn't going to ask me to bend so far that I nearly break.
A nice to have would be someone around my age too, the rest is just "likes" vs needs, I'm not so shallow as to discount someone as a partner because of looks or cock size.
Yeah, that's a unicorn alright, I thought I had found him, nope, not yet.
They say that marriage can be a wonderful thing. So can divorce. I'm happy to be single for now.
Let's talk about sex baby, let's talk about you and me....
Do these words get you going?
Rubber, leather, boots, gloves, uniforms, bondage, GOM (Glove on mouth), vac rack (yep, I have one), full coverage, gimp sacks and sleep sacks (yep I have those too), rubber, disguise play, gas masks, ball play, tit play, layers, dry suits, wet suits, poppers, rubber, transformation, gags, masks, edging, venus milkers (I want to try this so badly), sensuality, kissing, control, passion. Did I mention rubber?
Other thoughts:
Sexy is a confident man who isn't pushy.
Love a good beard and fur. Red bearded bears step to the front of the line please.
Turn offs: scat, blood, excessive pain, overly pushy guys, passive aggressive anything, addicts still using, and guys I could snap like a twig (sorry).
I am on recon, fetlife, thisvid, twitter, instagram, and other sites as well as here.
